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Keep Climbing: My Goals & Intentions for 2026

Keep Climbing: My Goals & Intentions for 2026

As I step into this year, I find myself thinking less about resolutions and more about direction. Approaching 50 has a way of sharpening your focus. You stop asking what’s possible and start asking what’s worth finishing. For me, this year isn’t about starting over or chasing a new version of myself. It’s about continuing the climb I’ve already been on, with intention, clarity, and a deeper respect for timing.

The phrase “keep climbing” has become my personal motto, not because the climb is easy, but because it’s honest. Progress doesn’t always come with fanfare. Sometimes it looks like showing up again when the outcome isn’t guaranteed, or choosing patience over frustration when things don’t move as quickly as you hoped. This year feels less like a sprint and more like a steady ascent, one that requires focus, discipline, and trust in the process.

I turn 50 in November, and that milestone has brought reflection without regret. I’m not interested in reinvention for the sake of appearances. I’m interested in completion. One of my strongest intentions this year is to finish what I start. I’ve always been rich in ideas, but growth has taught me that fulfillment comes from seeing things through to the end. From committing fully instead of scattering energy. Honoring the work long enough to let it mature.

That intention flows directly into my businesses. Both House of Charlotte Boutique and SouthernDivaKP are in a season where potential is no longer the question. This year is about execution, consistency, and sustainability. My goal is to grow both brands into six-figure businesses, not through constant hustle, but through structure, clarity, and a willingness to do the unglamorous work that long-term success requires.

In my career, I’m continuing to work toward a promotion, fully aware that the path isn’t clear or uncomplicated. There are real obstacles, and there are moments when it feels like this milestone should have been reached years ago. But I’m learning to let go of that narrative. What is meant for me will not pass me by. My responsibility is to remain prepared, capable, and confident, even when timing feels delayed or unfair.

Health is another area where intention has to become action. This year, I’m committed to managing my weight, staying on top of my hypertension, improving my sleep, and returning to movement in a way that supports my body instead of punishing it. Just as important is tending to my mental health. I’m returning to journaling and finally seeking therapy, something I avoided for most of last year. A healthy mindset isn’t about constant positivity; it’s about having the tools to navigate life with clarity and balance.

As part of honoring this chapter, I’m also planning a solo trip for my 50th birthday. Whether it ends up being Paris or Rome, the destination matters less than the intention behind it. The trip represents reflection, independence, and celebration. A moment to pause, look back at how far I’ve come, and acknowledge the woman I’m still becoming.

This year isn’t about proving anything. It’s about alignment. Aligning my actions with my intentions. Aligning discipline with vision. Giving myself grace while still holding myself accountable. I don’t need everything to happen all at once; I just need to keep moving forward.

No matter the pace, no matter the obstacles, I’m going to keep climbing.

When the Holidays Feel Heavy

When the Holidays Feel Heavy

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